The most surefire way to stay stuck is to hide from your stuckness.
Pretending that it’s all ok, you’ve got it handled.
Trying to do it all by yourself.
But you truly can’t handle your MIA alone. We all need support to get found.
Your resilience in difficult situations is solely about the mindset you bring to it, and the direction you’re headed. Here’s Two Ways to Develop the Resilience You Need to Create a Thriving Life and Career. FIRST: Develop a Mindset of Allowance (and Practice It Ruthlessly). Resilience is in seeing the bounty that’s present, rather than the outcome you desire. SECOND: Get Clarity about Your Purpose to Gain Direction and Guide Your Actions
It’s a whole lot easier to get where you’re going if you have a map or compass. Most of us set about in life imagining that it will all go fine if we just do what’s expected of us.
When you fear being your real self, or doing work that matters- you’re definitely already without-a-doubt living an illusion. And if your fear is not of being “different”, then it’s likely a fear of being “big”.
Fear shuts us down, keeps us small, squelches our voices and causes us to live with a “dimmed light”. But your soul doesn’t give up. It’s the voice that won’t go away. And it’s unlikely to give up on you until you submit to letting go of the trappings of your default life.
My mom gave me as “best” she could, and I did the “best” I could with that. And finally… I learned that my “best” depended not at all on what my Mom didn’t give me. And even more significantly, I learned that I could always be a more profound expression of me each and every day. My “best” continues to evolve. The best gift to any-kind-of-Mom is for you to be your best self. No matter what that “best” is.
Failures are the flip side of being “on purpose”. The stuff that seemingly gets in the way of being focused, aligned and on-track to be impactful.
So it’s not really about bouncing back as much as it is recognizing three things that can help you face your life’s mishaps from a new frame.
When faced with the maelstrom of political and economic circumstances right now, even the most practiced among us are still periodically faced with gripping fear when we are facing the complex tasks ahead in society. And we know we must keep our cool. To find our way out of this… we must activate the Vagus nerve and the “rest and digest” pattern to achieve grace under pressure. In addition to the many suggestions I made in this blog, there are a few additional tactics I’ve begun that have made a difference in my life.
There are many days recently that I’ve wanted to go back into my chrysallis and curl-up til the imaginal cells had done more of their magic. When I’m in this place, it feels like…
I’m obviously not ready for this world we live in.
Or so I tell myself after hearing a snippet of news.
Geez really…. And now that too?
We get scared when we feel powerless to do anything about how things are.
One belief is that we are already so far down the rabbit hole of technology running the human species that if we don’t assume some responsibility for technology being productively transformative, we’re in for a hellish end. We’ve been playing the endgame of survival, without paying attention to thriving.
The SuperPower Principle suggests that you can apply your experience of your SuperPowers to any area of your life, so that your entire life becomes an Epic experience.
I’ve been digging into the work of Nassim Haramein and the Resonance Foundation recently to beef-up my own understanding of the contemporary thinking about Unified Physics and how to apply it in my work.
Because I work with clients who want to bring their nuanced Purpose and SuperPowers into the world to have bigger impact AND more abundance, I wanted to tap into the new theories of physics to see how they dovetail with the transformational sciences and ALSO the esoteric principles of spirituality and psychic phenomena.
I LOVE it when various disciplines all flow in the same direction.
I want to offer you a very short list of the basic precepts of Unified Physics, to prevent your eyes glossing over, so hang with me.
The new Unified Physics principles help us relate to using psychic phenomena and space time to manifest our SuperPowers. We get to “see ourselves into existence”.